Jun 1, 2017

Some words that inspired me 50 years ago today....



I'm not sure if it was a revelation or an epiphany or perhaps neither. But today, on June 1, 2017 I was contacted by my older brother, who also happens to be a regular reader of this blog, and he asked me the following question.

"Are you aware what happened 50 years ago today?"....Well, no, actually I didn't. I did know it was kind of a neat time in my life ,1967. I was getting ready to go back to college for another year of debauchery. Staying out late. Drinkin'. Listening to music. Mostly "The Beatles".

Dave said, "Well, I just heard on the evening news that the song by the Beatles called, "A Day In The Life" happens to have the name of your blog in the lyrics."

Well, yeah, that's where I got the name almost 13 years ago when I started this blog. And even before that I used it for a column I used to write for a semi-underground newspaper off-base when I was in the U.S. Air Force. I used the pseudo-name Mot Rednek for the byline(if anyone can see the similarity there) just in case anyone on the base saw the column. Dave had never heard the lyrics. I was kind of surprised.

I loved the lyrics then, and I love them now. Although too often people think the name of the song is "I read the news today, oh boy"

I guess I realized Dave was already out of college and he was pursuing his career in the Air Force so maybe rock and roll wasn't his thing. It was mine for sure.

Anyway, "A Day In The Life" was released 50 years ago today. That's my story and I'm stickin to it.

And in a few hours from now "I'm gonna jump out of my bed and drag a comb across my head".

Rock on!

Always ask before you answer....


I have a new friend...someone I met thru my pool business...who not only makes me laugh as we share our stories but also has quite a varied background like myself.

Bill J. grew up in McKinney, Texas just north of where I live which is just north of Dallas. His mother is an attorney and his father, who passed away when Bill was quite young, was also an attorney and later a judge in Texas. Good roots, good people. Bill is married to a OB-GYN and together they have a house full of younguns' as Bill might describe them. And, oddly enough, he has relatives in Dayton, Ohio where I grew up.

Bill is just one of those people who you're immediately drawn to. His deep Texas accent warms you right away and his down home speech might fool you into thinking he is just a good ole' country boy. Well, he's that for sure but he's also a lot more. He's witty, intelligent and very astute at figuring out people. Again, humbly, a lot like me. I guess that's why I like him.

Although the family has now moved to the big city (only about 20 miles south) Bill maintains his cattle ranch up in McKinney. From what I gather he has a variety of stock from cows, bulls and hogs. I really don't know exactly I guess but I'm learning more as we visit.

Yesterday he mentioned he has two cows that were about to domino and he would have to get up to the ranch and check on them.. Now, I'm familiar with the word "domino", since it is often used when pregnant women are ready to deliver. I doubt Bill's wife uses the word in her practice, but this is just Bill's way of telling his stories.

My immediate reaction was, "Wow. hey I'd like to go up there with you and check out the ranch."

Bill said, "Why don't you come up during AI?"

I thought,"Man, AI, gosh this guy is really up with technology. Artificial Intelligence on a ranch."

I asked, "How do you use AI at the ranch, Bill?"

He smiled, again knowing he had me, ""Well, we use it to get the cows pregnant You can help if you want."

I thought...."Yikes, that kind of AI. Artificial Insemination."

I laughed and said, "Well, sure....um do I help the bull get ready or the cow?. and then I said. "NEVERMIND"...maybe I'll just take pictures!"

I tell ya, I love this guy, he's going to be giving me stories to write about for a long, long time.

May 28, 2017

Another part of Americana Lost....the pocket knife

There was a time in this great country of ours when it was the "good" guys who carried knives. It was the good guys who could fix anything, repair anything, open anything with a simple device they always carried in their pocket. Now it's the pieces of garbage who walk the streets preying on men, women and children willing to cut their throat for a few dollars, who carry the knives.

Pocket knives were not only popular but at one time they were endorsed by a moral American organization, The Boy Scouts of America. The pocket knives were so well accepted they often were referred to as a Cub Scout knife instead of a pocket knife.
The classic Cub Scout knife

Everyone I knew had a pocket knife. Sure, we did some stupid stuff with them. But, for the most part our moms and dads not only approved of us having a pocket knife, heck, they BOUGHT them for us.

Can you imagine the look on some people's faces these days if you proclaimed, "Yep, I got my 10 year-old grandson or granddaughter a pocket knife for their birthday. They'd probably report you to Child Protective Services.

As I mentioned, yep, we did some stupid things with our pocket knives. One game in particular was playing Mumbly Peg (or different derivatives of the spelling) . I'll let you read about it in the link or even watch a Youtube video but basically you threw the knife to stick in the ground and your opponent had to spread his legs further and further apart or another version was flipping the knife off of your arm or hand.. If someone threw their knife into their own foot it was an automatic win!.

We also used to use our pocket knives to do some whittlin', once again a lost part of Americana, and of course we would carve our initials wherever we could find a suitable place without getting caught.

When we would go to Loos Elementary School in Dayton, Ohio we would start off the summer playground session by carving our initials in the lone picnic table they brought from the city. Often times we got the same table back each year and we gleamed with pride when we spotted our TAK's and EGS's and GNW's displayed proudly.

My friend, "The Jer", had the holy grail of pocket knives. The Swiss Army Knife pocket knife. It had it all including extremely sharp blades, a spoon, a fork, a leather -poking thingy, a screw driver, a bottle opener, a can opener and more. I said that he had it, BUT, he wasn't allowed to use it. I know, I know that sounds odd, but then, so was "The Jer" and him not being allowed to have his Swiss Army knife was probably a good thing. But then of course, he always had it defying his parents wishes. One reason they didn't want him to have it probably because he almost sliced his thumb off once. Bled like a son-of-a-gun.

I learned how to whittle from an old man who lived up the street. We nicknamed him, 3 Finger Pete, because he was short a few digits on his left hand. We weren't sure if he lost them while doing some whittlin' but just as well the name fit.

He would carve these little whistles that he called "dog whistles". When you blew them you couldn't hear anything, but he said dogs could hear them. We kinda believed him but now looking back I think he was pulling our leg.

I still have a pocket knife. I keep it in my truck though. Heck, if you get caught carryin' a knife you are in big trouble. You can't go into the Courthouse with a pocket knife. Can't fly. Can't even go into sporting events let alone concerts.

Yep, the world is upside down when the "good guys"  are helpless and the "thugs" have the weapons.

Have a good weekend y'all.

Oh, one other piece of information. It's called Knife Etiquette . If someone ever hands you an open knife...always return it to them in the open position. If they offer you the knife in the closed position, then return it in the closed position.



Apr 30, 2017

Choices...The bane of my existence



I think that sometimes people think that I don't care about things because usually my opinion about something is simply "that's fine". I'm certainly interested in the subject, I'm impressed with the results, I like the finished product...and it's "just fine".

I'm not lazy. It's not that I don't want the best results. It's just that...well, I'm easily satisfied.

These thoughts came about this morning when I went to turn on the heater, oops furnace, since there was a significant drop in the temperature last night. I'm normally not in charge of things like setting the temperature,  Pattye handles that, so after I simply flipped the switch from OFF to HEAT, it dawned on her that I needed to change the temperature setting as well. We had just turned the AC on the day before when it was in the 90's... Welcome to Texas... And then I started thinking....which by the way is dangerous, "Why do we have a different setting for the summer and the winter?"

Now, please, don't give me all of the scientific facts about humditity and drafts through the house and blah, blah, blah. The answer is simple. We have too many choices in life. Period.

You wanna know what is really over-rated. The thing that has way too many choices. The 3-way bulb. Oh, I have one. Actually we have several in the house. The one I have on right now where I am typing is a 3-way bulb. Actually, it's a 2-way bulb right now and before long it will turn into a one-way bulb. And, then,  yep, and then after it goes out I'll buy another 3-way bulb. All I do is turn the knob and keep turning it until the light comes on and then keep turning it until the light goes off.

You know, I rarely even salt and pepper my food unless it is simply by habit. And what about those people who salt their food when they haven't even tasted it. WTH?.

And colors. What's up with that? We've got 8 colors in the rainbow and that's plenty.

A few years ago when I was designing websites for profits, I had some lady say to me "Tom, could you make the blue a little bluer?" Are you kidding me?. That's why I design them for free now, so I can simply say, "Nope".

I'm thinking, see there I go again, thinking...but I'm thinking maybe it has something to do with my supposed ADD or whatever it's called. Maybe, I'm happy making a choice and moving on. Or heck, maybe I am lazy. I don't know....Hmmm.. let me think, is the thermostat supposed to be 70 in the summer or the winter. I guess that's not my choice and I'm fine with that.



Apr 17, 2017

Friendships can sometimes save a life...



Can anyone imagine ever saying, "My friend saved my life"? ...Well, if that sounds like a chance in a million of ever happening, what about "My high school classmate from over 50 years ago saved my life".  And, yes,  that was the case with Jack Berkemeier, Class President of the Fairview Class of '63  and what he had to say about Dr. David Joffe, also class of '63..

As some of you know, Jack has had his share, actually more than his share of some health issues over the years. You'd never know it though. He's always the first to offer help like he did when I desperately needed a projector for my 50th Reunion last year and he came to the rescue.. And Jack is always the lead dog when anything Fairview is taking place. He's the first one to get there and one of the last ones to leave.

Jack had moved temporarily back to the Dayton area a couple of years ago when he was asked to renovate an abandoned movie theater in the Miamisburg area, and that led to a renovation of a theater in Urbana and now a third theater in Eaton..

Jack has always been fast paced and even with the ole' ticker missing a few beats every now and then he keeps up with the youngest ones around.

I talked with Jack today when I had received notification of a '63 classmate of Jack's had passed away. Art Messer. I have a connection with that class partly because my brother Rick was in that class and I also host a website for the class.

I had also learned while talking with Jack that his doctor, David Joffe, had been battling some health issues as well. That information had come from Jack via Bill Wagner, '63.

After a little hesitation, Jack said, "Tommy, if it wasn't for Dr. David, I wouldn't be here today. I had called him when I was experiencing what I thought to be another heart issue and he demanded that I get to the hospital right away."

Jack just got out of the hospital on Friday, but he will be going back in on April 28th for what will probably be bypass surgery.

What a wonderful world we live in, when we can continue to have the friendships that we created 50 and 60 years ago.

Please let Jack know you are thinking of him. You can find him on Facebook or drop me a line and I'll send you his email address and or phone number.  And Jack said, Dr. David Joffe would like to hear from old friends as well and you can wish him well while he is on the mend at drcdave@yahoo.com

I'm proud to have gone to Fairview High School, a place where we made friendships and we know, that if our life ever is in danger, all we have to do is pick up the phone and that classmate will be there to help us or even save our life.. And, I'm proud to have known Jack going back 60 years to Our Lady of Mercy and then Fairview. He truly is one in a million.

Jack said he is so thankful to have had these opportunities to restore these wonderful theaters. and now it is only fitting, that a classmate from so many years ago can now help restore Jack's life.

Be well my friend